Anniversary Gifts
Welcome to Heads and Tails Jewellery’s comprehensive guide to wedding anniversary gifts by year in the UK. Celebrating each milestone in your marriage is a cherished tradition, with each year symbolising a new chapter in your journey together. Whether you are looking for a traditional gift to honour your enduring love or a modern twist to surprise your partner, our guide is here to help you find the perfect anniversary gift. From the delicate paper of the first anniversary to the timeless diamond of the 60th, discover meaningful and beautiful gift ideas tailored to each year of your union.
The tradition of giving themed gifts dates back centuries. Originally, husbands in the Holy Roman Empire would present their wives with a silver wreath on their 25th anniversary and a golden one on their 50th. Over time, these traditions have evolved, and now each anniversary year is associated with both traditional and modern gift themes.
Our comprehensive guide will take you through each anniversary year, offering gift ideas that align with these timeless traditions. Whether you’re looking for classic, modern, or unique gifts, we’ve got you covered with suggestions tailored to mark every milestone in your journey together.
Wedding Anniversary Themes by Year (UK)
Year | Traditional Gift | Colour | Gemstone |
1st | Paper | Yellow Gold | Gold Jewellery |
2nd | Cotton | Red | Garnet |
3rd | Leather | White; Jade | Pearl |
4th | Linen | Green; Blue | Blue Topaz |
5th | Wood | Pink; Blue; Turquoise | Sapphire |
6th | Sugar (or Iron) | White; Turquoise; Purple | Amethyst |
7th | Wool or Copper | Off-White; Yellow | Onyx |
8th | Bronze | Bronze | Tourmaline |
9th | Pottery | Terracotta | Lapis Lazuli |
10th | Tin (or Aluminium) | Blue; Silver | Diamond |
11th | Steel | Silver; Grey | Turquoise |
12th | Silk | Oyster-White | Exit |
13th | Lace | White | Citrine |
14th | Ivory | Ivory | Opal |
15th | Crystal | Red | Ruby |
20th | China | Emerald-Green | Emerald |
25th | Silver | Silver | Silver |
30th | Pearls | Pearls | Pearl |
35th | Coral | Coral | Coral |
40th | Ruby | Ruby-Red | Ruby |
45th | Sapphire | Blue | Sapphire |
50th | Gold | Gold | Gold |
55th | Emerald | Green | Emerald |
60th | Diamonds | Diamond-White | Diamond |
70th | Platinum | Platinum | Platinum |
75th | Diamonds | Diamond-White | Diamond |
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Finding the perfect gift for each anniversary can be both exciting and challenging. At Heads and Tails Jewellery, we offer a range of exquisite, thoughtful gifts that are ideal for celebrating these special milestones. Here are some suggestions to help you find the ideal anniversary present for your loved one:
1st Anniversary: Paper
Traditionally, the first anniversary is symbolised by paper, representing the fragile beginnings of marriage. Consider a unique and memorable paper-themed gift like our paper inspired cufflinks for men or a beautiful coin necklace for women.
2nd Anniversary: Cotton
Cotton signifies comfort and durability. Celebrate this milestone with a Coin Keyring, cotton cufflinks or a coin necklace. This practical yet sentimental gift can be customised with your wedding year coin, adding a personal touch to an everyday item that symbolises your enduring relationship.
3rd Anniversary: Leather
Leather symbolises the durability of your marriage. A thoughtful gift idea is a Handcrafted Leather Necklace or a leather-bound hip flask. Both these gifts are on theme and are perfect as a set for him and for her.
5th Anniversary: Wood
Wood represents strength and long-lasting relationships. A beautiful way to celebrate this milestone is with a Wooden Anniversary Necklace. Our selection of Wood Necklaces is available in different woods, colours and finishes serving as a constant reminder of your love.
10th Anniversary: Aluminium/Tin
Tin symbolises preservation and longevity. Mark a decade of love with a coin keyring or a hip flask.
20th Anniversary: China
China represents the delicate beauty of a long-lasting marriage. Consider a pair of pearl cufflinks or a coin bracelet with a coin from the year you were married. This piece can be further customised with a special message, serving as a beautiful reminder of your journey together.
25th Anniversary: Silver
Silver symbolises the value and radiance of your relationship. Celebrate a quarter-century of love with a Sterling Silver Coin Necklace. This timeless piece of jewellery can be engraved with a significant date or a loving message, making it a treasured keepsake.
30th Anniversary: Pearl
Pearl represents wisdom and purity. A thoughtful gift idea for this milestone is a Coin Necklace. Elegant and classic, this pendant can be worn on special occasions or daily, reminding your partner of your bond.
40th Anniversary: Ruby
Ruby symbolises passion and vitality. Celebrate this vibrant milestone with a Coin Ring. This stunning piece of jewellery is perfect for expressing your continued love and passion after four decades together.
50th Anniversary: Gold
Gold represents prosperity and strength. Honour this incredible milestone with Gold piece of jewellery from our collection. This exquisite piece can hold a coin from your wedding year, making it a deeply personal and meaningful gift.
Personalised Anniversary Gifts
Adding a personal touch to your anniversary gift can make it even more special and meaningful. At Heads and Tails Jewellery, we offer custom engraving and the selection of specific coins to ensure your gift is truly unique. Here are some ways you can personalise your anniversary gifts:
Engraving Services
Engraving is a timeless way to add a personal touch to jewellery. Many of our pieces, including necklaces, bracelets, and rings, can be engraved with names, initials, special dates, or short messages. For example, our Sterling Silver Pendant Necklace can be engraved with your wedding date or a meaningful phrase, creating a cherished keepsake that your partner will treasure forever. Whether you want to mark a significant date, inscribe a loving message, or simply add your initials, our engraving service provides a lasting personal touch.
Custom Coin Selection
At Heads and Tails Jewellery, we offer a unique option for selecting specific coins to be incorporated into your jewellery. This adds a special significance to your gift, especially if the coin represents a meaningful year or location. Our Coin Necklaces, Coin Bracelets and Coin Keyrings can feature coins from specific years that hold sentimental value, such as the year you met, got married, or any other special milestone. Choosing a coin that has personal significance makes your gift not only beautiful but also rich with personal meaning.
Gift Packaging
To enhance the gifting experience, we offer premium gift packaging options. Our elegant boxes and pouches can be personalised with a message or name, adding a thoughtful touch to your presentation. This service ensures that your gift is not only special but also beautifully presented, making the moment of unwrapping even more memorable.
Meaningful Add-Ons
Consider adding a meaningful note or card to your gift. We offer anniversary cards that can include a heartfelt message, a favourite quote, or a special memory. This small addition can make a significant impact, adding depth and emotion to your gift. A well-chosen card can express sentiments that are hard to put into words and complement the beauty of your chosen jewellery piece.
At Heads and Tails Jewellery, we understand that the best gifts are those that come from the heart. Our personalisation options allow you to create a gift that is not only beautiful but also deeply meaningful, reflecting the unique bond you share with your partner. Celebrate your anniversary with a personalised gift that tells your love story in a way that only you can.
Historical Background
The tradition of giving specific gifts to celebrate wedding anniversaries has a rich history that dates back centuries. Each gift material represents different qualities that reflect the growing strength and depth of the marriage as the years go by.
Origins in the Holy Roman Empire
The practice of giving symbolic gifts for anniversaries is believed to have started in the Holy Roman Empire. Husbands would crown their wives with a silver wreath on their 25th anniversary, signifying the value and rarity of the milestone. On their 50th anniversary, a golden wreath was given, representing the enduring nature and preciousness of their union. These significant milestones, known as the “silver” and “golden” anniversaries, laid the foundation for the modern tradition of anniversary gifts.
Victorian Influence
The tradition evolved significantly during the Victorian era. As the celebration of anniversaries became more popular, the Victorians expanded the list of symbolic gifts to mark each passing year of marriage. This era, known for its emphasis on customs and rituals, played a crucial role in formalising the tradition of anniversary gifts. The idea was to associate each year with materials that symbolised the growing strength and adaptability of the relationship.
Modern Additions
In the 20th century, the tradition was further expanded by various commercial entities and etiquette experts. This period saw the introduction of modern gifts alongside the traditional ones, providing more contemporary and practical options for each anniversary. For instance, the first anniversary, traditionally marked by paper, was complemented with clocks as a modern option. This blending of traditional and modern gifts allowed couples more flexibility and creativity in choosing meaningful presents.
Symbolism of Materials
The materials associated with each anniversary carry deep symbolic meanings. For example:
- Paper (1st Anniversary): Represents the fragile beginnings of a marriage and the blank page of a new chapter.
- Cotton (2nd Anniversary): Symbolises the comfort and strength that come from a closely interwoven relationship.
- Leather (3rd Anniversary): Denotes durability and the ability to withstand the tests of time.
- Silver (25th Anniversary): Reflects the value and longevity of the relationship.
- Gold (50th Anniversary): Symbolises the ultimate achievement and the preciousness of a long-lasting union.
Interesting Anecdotes
- In medieval Germany, it was customary for friends and family to present the couple with a wreath of gold for the 25th and 50th anniversaries, a practice that further solidified the golden anniversary tradition.
- The diamond, often associated with the 60th anniversary, was popularised by Queen Victoria, who celebrated her Diamond Jubilee after 60 years on the throne, thereby linking diamonds with long-lasting endurance and brilliance.
These traditions have been passed down through generations, adapting to cultural changes while maintaining their core symbolism. Today, couples worldwide continue to celebrate their anniversaries with gifts that honour these time-honoured customs, blending historical significance with personal meaning. At Heads and Tails Jewellery, we embrace these traditions by offering beautifully crafted gifts that embody the spirit of each milestone, helping you celebrate your unique journey together.